Friends vs Lovers

It's a cloudy morning and yet da sun is still up behind da darkest clouds,in a way it does shows how I'm feeling right now, da weather tells da mood I'm in uh?Haha anyway hey before I start to talk a little story of mine, I wanna write something funny here to share with everyone, I guessed it might make us laugh or might lighten us on something..

Okie I name tis Friends vs Lovers where I'm gonna compare how do we feel or think or react in different situation with our friends and lovers..enjoy this people..I have been thinking about this da whole morning and it kept making me grin..

Situation 1: When you receive a call from them asking where are you & what are you doing?
Friends : It's a concern from them
Lovers : Why is she checking on me?I need freedom k?I dont need to report to you..

Situation 2: When they get sick and tells you about it
Friends : Immediately you'll call or msg them to check them out
Lovers : Sick again,duh?Msg and ask are you okie?

Situation 3: When both ask you out..
Friends : What time and where?I'm on my way
Lovers : Sorry honey, I got something on with my friends, I'll make it next time k?

Situation 4: When they need your help..
Friends : What happened?Do you need me to come over?
Lovers : Msg and msg asking about what happened again

Situation 5: Ask you to come over to look for them..
Friends : Alright,I'll be there,wait for me..
Lovers : Honey, i'm tired,can we talk tis on da phone?or can we talk about it when we meet?

Situation 6: When they repeatly asking you on something or when they ask more..
Friends : They are trying to understand me or da situation better
Lovers : What does she understand about me?Stop asking!I had enough..

Situation 7: When they are having a bad day and tends to be moody
Friends : Stay by their side & trying to know what happened
Lovers : Again n again it's happening, I doesnt understand her anymore & I hate asking over and over again what happened

Situation 8: When they tell you about your weakness
Friends : Okie they got a point there,I'll listen
Lovers : Is she trying to complain about me again?How many people have she been telling to?

Situation 9: When they give suggestion on your problem
Friends : Hey I reallie appreciate your help, it works and thanks for da support
Lovers : Dun act as though you know everything, you doesnt know how i feel

Situation 10: When they say they're sorry for their mistakes
Friends : It's okie,we forgive and forget, that's what friends are for..
Lovers : Sometimes sorry aint enough or sorry is kinda late?You sure you're sorry?

Situation 11: When they write a special message/dedication for you
Friends : Wow,that's so sweet from you
Lovers : Another message/dedication again..

Situation 12: When they start to complain to you about anything
Friends : Listen tentatively
Lovers : Em,yeah..uh..okie..den..so?Alright..

Situation 13: When they needed your care and attention
Friends : Anytime & anywhere
Lovers : Stop acting like a care & attention seeker please

Situation 14: When they say you spend too little time with them
Friends : Sorrie been busy lately
Lovers : You're suppose to understand that we doesnt need to meet everyday?

Situation 15: When you argue/raising an issue with them
Friends : Okie,let's get this over,talk and talk..
Lovers : Keep quiet and IGNORE!!

Situation 16: When you're moody or having a bad temper day
Friends : I'm sorrie I'm having a bad day,stay away..
Lovers : I find it so hard talking to you, run away..

Situation 17: When they dun agree with what you are doing
Friends : Think twice about what they say
Lovers : Why you always thinks you're right?

Situation 18: When they wanna tell you how they feel about you & them
Friends : It's a heart to heart talk session
Lovers : Cant she stop talking?She's talking too much

Situation 19: When they complaint about you spending too much time with the other party
Friends : You know,girlfriends?I just dun wan them to talk n talk n complaint!!!
Lovers : You're suppose to understand my situation..

Situation 20: When they ask how important are they
Friends : Friends are important and how can I lose you gals..
Lovers : Love isnt all da thing you have in your life, stop asking..


Lol okie that's all da 20 situations where I can think and above whatever I mentioned is how I think or in a way experience, aint complaining about her, I heard this before also from friends around me and it seems that there's always a different treatment between friends and lovers. Why?Probably we're more comfy and open towards friends and as for lovers, we take every words and actions seriously cos we CARE too much. For me da best solution that I have been reading from magazines is to accept your girlfriend as a friend as well, it just another extra word "girl". As being a girlfriend, I got problems as well talking to my girlfriend, reason would be we are kinda stubborn when comes to communicating. At times she might be joking but i'm not, sometimes mayb i joke but she's in da bad mood to take it. We need to adjust and compromise a bit here. We are humans, sensitive creatures, accept da one you love with an open heart, if you have doubts or complains or anything, share with them, I'm pretty sure da one you love would be willing to listen to you. If they dont, force them to listen to you. Let them know how you feel about everything and of cos some things are better left unsaid(actions speak louder than words,sometimes!)

I confess that I doesnt practice what I mention here so that's why it got me into this bad situation right now, she may not be here to read all this, yet I hope one day she understands me, everything I do may not seem right or may seems irritating, how am I gonna know if you doesnt let me know?I kinda dumb at times,whatever I see I take it as da fact.I'm kinda slow in reading between da lines or swim under da sea to understand how's da real situation.

Sorrie for this stupid thingy,anyway end of this friends vs lovers session,next one coming up in few minutes..have fun people and a great day =)