Questions and Answers
Yesterday went out with her and daniel,daniel kept asking questions and opinions about his relationship cos he felt something is wrong and it make him feel down.While talking to him,at few times I was looking but most of da times I wasnt.Reason?Didnt want her to misunderstand what I'm trying to tell him.Hopefully she does realise what I have been doing all this while for her.
Daniel gave me a shock when he asked me what can he do to keep his boyfriend loyalty towards him.How I wish I knew da answer too.Recently,I learned da meaning of loyalty.I used to think there's only one definition for it where when you have a partner and you only love & stay with your partner without any flings or flirt outside den you're consider loyal BUT now let me tell you da rest of da definition I found out.
First situation,your partner loves and cares about you very much,he/she will call or msg you everyday telling you how much she feels about you,he/she wanna spend da lifetime with you but he/she do flings/flirts/sleep around with others and no matter what,he/she only turn back to you.Isnt' he/she loyal towards you?
Second situation,your partner is having you and another gal,he/she couldnt make da decision of choosing who cos he/she doesnt wanna hurt anyone in da relationship and he/she always tell you that da one who's making him/her happie is only you and he only feel da love in you.Isn't he/she loyal towards you?
Da term loyalty has too many definition,is just how you define it and how you can accept it.If you're willing to scarifice everything with not hoping for any return den loyalty shouldnt be any issue at all and if you're someone who doesnt want your love to be taken grantedly & selfishly,probably you would have lots of confusions.
In relationship,most of da time,there's a giver and a taker but bear in mind that when da giver gives too much and da return is pain.Da giver would only feel tired and sad.Appreciate what and who you have.Aint easy to find someone who stands by you whenever you need them.Dont take them grantedly as they are not your spare time nor spare tyre nor just "a no- one".It's true that who doesnt like to be loved and pampered all da time?Yet got to remember to love and pamper those who showered it to you.
If love can be bought with money and material,it could last just for sometime and da happiness that you get is a temporary one.What's reallie happiness is da love that comes naturally to you with no price.Love isnt dependency nor companion.Love is about trust, care, support, dreams, hopes and future together.
People who got bad experience or hurt in relationship before may wanna give up about love or prolly thinks that true love never exists.Well I doesnt know.As what I gone through,I still wants my true love,I still believe it's her.How I wish I could cry in her arms,I really want to.
Remember I'm good in looking at pictures and describing about people?Why I didnt wanna describe about our pictures?Because I didnt wanna let you know that there's still sadness in my eyes.. and I still love you
Sometimes da way I adviced you may not seem right or doesnt sound good at all but I reallie wanna let you know watever is it,it's for your own sake.You should realise I have never harm you nor try to hurt you cos I do care and sayang you.Reason I would be strict on you on certain matters because I wanna you to learn more and to understand more.It's okie if you would misunderstand cos tat's what been happening most of da time.It's reallie fine with me.I rather you'll learn & misun me rather den continuing being stubborn =) as long you're safe and warm and happie..wat can I expect more?
Daniel gave me a shock when he asked me what can he do to keep his boyfriend loyalty towards him.How I wish I knew da answer too.Recently,I learned da meaning of loyalty.I used to think there's only one definition for it where when you have a partner and you only love & stay with your partner without any flings or flirt outside den you're consider loyal BUT now let me tell you da rest of da definition I found out.
First situation,your partner loves and cares about you very much,he/she will call or msg you everyday telling you how much she feels about you,he/she wanna spend da lifetime with you but he/she do flings/flirts/sleep around with others and no matter what,he/she only turn back to you.Isnt' he/she loyal towards you?
Second situation,your partner is having you and another gal,he/she couldnt make da decision of choosing who cos he/she doesnt wanna hurt anyone in da relationship and he/she always tell you that da one who's making him/her happie is only you and he only feel da love in you.Isn't he/she loyal towards you?
Da term loyalty has too many definition,is just how you define it and how you can accept it.If you're willing to scarifice everything with not hoping for any return den loyalty shouldnt be any issue at all and if you're someone who doesnt want your love to be taken grantedly & selfishly,probably you would have lots of confusions.
In relationship,most of da time,there's a giver and a taker but bear in mind that when da giver gives too much and da return is pain.Da giver would only feel tired and sad.Appreciate what and who you have.Aint easy to find someone who stands by you whenever you need them.Dont take them grantedly as they are not your spare time nor spare tyre nor just "a no- one".It's true that who doesnt like to be loved and pampered all da time?Yet got to remember to love and pamper those who showered it to you.
If love can be bought with money and material,it could last just for sometime and da happiness that you get is a temporary one.What's reallie happiness is da love that comes naturally to you with no price.Love isnt dependency nor companion.Love is about trust, care, support, dreams, hopes and future together.
People who got bad experience or hurt in relationship before may wanna give up about love or prolly thinks that true love never exists.Well I doesnt know.As what I gone through,I still wants my true love,I still believe it's her.How I wish I could cry in her arms,I really want to.
Remember I'm good in looking at pictures and describing about people?Why I didnt wanna describe about our pictures?Because I didnt wanna let you know that there's still sadness in my eyes.. and I still love you
Sometimes da way I adviced you may not seem right or doesnt sound good at all but I reallie wanna let you know watever is it,it's for your own sake.You should realise I have never harm you nor try to hurt you cos I do care and sayang you.Reason I would be strict on you on certain matters because I wanna you to learn more and to understand more.It's okie if you would misunderstand cos tat's what been happening most of da time.It's reallie fine with me.I rather you'll learn & misun me rather den continuing being stubborn =) as long you're safe and warm and happie..wat can I expect more?
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