Catching Up..
Been quite some time I didnt catch up with my old time buddies in high school till last Friday.We were gathered together to give a surprise belated birthday celebration to my 20 years best friend.Imagine how many 20 years do we have and to have known & still keep in touch with a friend for tat length of time is merely impossible but me & my best friend proves it's a myth.If you have da heart to do so,anything could be possible =)Besides surprising her,I'm surprised too that my dear went with me*huggies*I do reallie appreciate this cos you know it's my friends and she doesnt reallie know them well and I'm just happie that she gave in her guts*muacks*thanks my dear.
Well sitting for few hours with them,been listening to relationship stories from each of them.Take a look at them,most of them are in minimum 5 years of relationship and da one that last longest was 7 years which just broke up recently.All sort of complains and problems from them & again I'm truly blessed with mine.Though my dear and I are together for almost 2 years which cant compare to theirs but at least we are kinda contented with what we have.Looking at my best friend with her gf,one wanna move ahead for their future but the other one is still lost in space & da worst part is both of them do love each other very much while another couple,both are planning well for their future by getting a property here for investment purposes & planning for migration to Australia to be legally married,sounds good?but they're getting bored over their relationship where there's no spices/excitement for them.
You see da difference between both couples?They're just da opposite of each other.
And somehow it makes me realise one thing that it's important to have da future with da one you love and yet it's more important to make sure that both heart & minds are willing to take the steps & reaching da same stop.Experts did summarized from their research that actually we look for someone who is similiar to us as our partners.You get what I mean?In another way of saying it,we are more attracted to people who share about da same characteristics,interest,views and etc as us.Probably because it's easier to get a mutual agreement in a relationship else both will be in da hot pot and I totally agree on sharing some same interest else da conversation will never last long.
Another point I see is how to make a relationship last without da word 'bored'?This aint a easy mission & frankly,there's no exact answer for this.It's all about putting da right ingredients and other spices to cook a good dish.I just hope that my dear doesnt feel boring listening to my talk everyday*haha*I know I'm kinda naggy at times =P
Poor dear has throat infection,she's been sick for da past few days and hope she gets well by today.I have been sick too since last weekend till today,nearly wanted to take MC to sleep and thinking of going to A.Star with my dear so I'll save up my MC days for this*keke*
Dear you shine up my days*blink blink blink*Look at da shirt we're wearing!
Well sitting for few hours with them,been listening to relationship stories from each of them.Take a look at them,most of them are in minimum 5 years of relationship and da one that last longest was 7 years which just broke up recently.All sort of complains and problems from them & again I'm truly blessed with mine.Though my dear and I are together for almost 2 years which cant compare to theirs but at least we are kinda contented with what we have.Looking at my best friend with her gf,one wanna move ahead for their future but the other one is still lost in space & da worst part is both of them do love each other very much while another couple,both are planning well for their future by getting a property here for investment purposes & planning for migration to Australia to be legally married,sounds good?but they're getting bored over their relationship where there's no spices/excitement for them.
You see da difference between both couples?They're just da opposite of each other.
And somehow it makes me realise one thing that it's important to have da future with da one you love and yet it's more important to make sure that both heart & minds are willing to take the steps & reaching da same stop.Experts did summarized from their research that actually we look for someone who is similiar to us as our partners.You get what I mean?In another way of saying it,we are more attracted to people who share about da same characteristics,interest,views and etc as us.Probably because it's easier to get a mutual agreement in a relationship else both will be in da hot pot and I totally agree on sharing some same interest else da conversation will never last long.
Another point I see is how to make a relationship last without da word 'bored'?This aint a easy mission & frankly,there's no exact answer for this.It's all about putting da right ingredients and other spices to cook a good dish.I just hope that my dear doesnt feel boring listening to my talk everyday*haha*I know I'm kinda naggy at times =P
Poor dear has throat infection,she's been sick for da past few days and hope she gets well by today.I have been sick too since last weekend till today,nearly wanted to take MC to sleep and thinking of going to A.Star with my dear so I'll save up my MC days for this*keke*
Dear you shine up my days*blink blink blink*Look at da shirt we're wearing!
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