You+Me

Is it true that for couples,da more you see each other den da more you 'know' each other and eventually da more arguments there will be?

Last week wasnt a reallie good week for me,as we gone through few quarreling where we both knew that there is a problem but we couldnt locate the solution for us.It's like you feel sick but you doesnt know what's da best med.I was totally upset cos we never had such arguments before especially over small problems(i think)and start throwing tanthrums on each other for disliking certain behaviors or words.

Then I start to ponder,what happens if we live together?

In fact she did asked me whether have I ever thought of living in with her and honestly I did but practically I'm afraid.I know that both of us are stubborn people who prefers da soft way(if one start to scream over each other,de other will get crazy),worst still I'm da emotional person(try neglecting me) and she's da more practical one.She's hot tempered(try not listening to her words*muahaha*) & I'm easily offended(try critizing me few times in a roll).Both of us dislikes when we doesnt follow or listen to each other way.In a way we seems like weirdo couple cos we do share da same attitude/characted but de other way round,we're an absolute match for each other cos our differences*haha*Understand what I'm writing here?

Actually I do feel there's a solution for us which both of us agree on,da word 'patience'.That's when one talks and de other listens & take turns.Throw out whatever you need to but de other have to bear in mind with no hard feelings.I admit that when we have 'conversations' I take your words too heavily.It's true when you're telling me how you feel then in da end I'll complain you're hurting me and you'll wonder whether should you say it out da next time?I'll need to correct this myself*cross fingers!not gonna repeat da same old mistake/history again*

So if I listen to you,would you listen to me too?

About our character/attitude,nothing much we can but to slowly accepting who we are?We have different styles/senses about what we do and it doesnt mean we cant cope with it right?Need some spices & efforts for this.It's easy to start a relationship & it's not impossible to maintain one.

Few times,she makes me feel a bit lost though & I'll make da fuss that she doesnt care about me.Da actual reason is lately maybe because she's getting more tensed & frustrated about her referral and somehow she neglected those itsy bitsy tiny mini sensitivity towards me & I dont feel good about it.Anyway,cant blame her nor anyone so just wanna write it out =)

Finally,we got bought da bedframe last week with new bedsheets,followed by da curtain(*shh*it's bathroom curtain actually,water proof!*wow*),da study table,quilt and quilt cover,tv rack,extension n etc.Then we thought da bedframe gonna arrive yesteday so we shifted everything out of da room and ring ring,da bedframe is coming in another day*ish*However,we cleaned da grills+windows,put up da new curtains,throw da old tv rack & changed to da new one,change bedsheets+quilt and spring clean da room.Now da room looks brighter!Last time her rooms seems gloomy,da best place to hibernate but now it's more cheerful with da orange colors around.So next shall set up da study table & wait for da bedframe,once done then everything looks perfectly fine =D and oh yeah we got some tips from Uncle Lim*arigato!*

Hope with this new & fresh environment,will change a better you+me,love you dear,ka yau dear!!

p/s:Happie 23rd Month Anniversary!(21/09/2007)