You+Me

Is it true that for couples,da more you see each other den da more you 'know' each other and eventually da more arguments there will be?

Last week wasnt a reallie good week for me,as we gone through few quarreling where we both knew that there is a problem but we couldnt locate the solution for us.It's like you feel sick but you doesnt know what's da best med.I was totally upset cos we never had such arguments before especially over small problems(i think)and start throwing tanthrums on each other for disliking certain behaviors or words.

Then I start to ponder,what happens if we live together?

In fact she did asked me whether have I ever thought of living in with her and honestly I did but practically I'm afraid.I know that both of us are stubborn people who prefers da soft way(if one start to scream over each other,de other will get crazy),worst still I'm da emotional person(try neglecting me) and she's da more practical one.She's hot tempered(try not listening to her words*muahaha*) & I'm easily offended(try critizing me few times in a roll).Both of us dislikes when we doesnt follow or listen to each other way.In a way we seems like weirdo couple cos we do share da same attitude/characted but de other way round,we're an absolute match for each other cos our differences*haha*Understand what I'm writing here?

Actually I do feel there's a solution for us which both of us agree on,da word 'patience'.That's when one talks and de other listens & take turns.Throw out whatever you need to but de other have to bear in mind with no hard feelings.I admit that when we have 'conversations' I take your words too heavily.It's true when you're telling me how you feel then in da end I'll complain you're hurting me and you'll wonder whether should you say it out da next time?I'll need to correct this myself*cross fingers!not gonna repeat da same old mistake/history again*

So if I listen to you,would you listen to me too?

About our character/attitude,nothing much we can but to slowly accepting who we are?We have different styles/senses about what we do and it doesnt mean we cant cope with it right?Need some spices & efforts for this.It's easy to start a relationship & it's not impossible to maintain one.

Few times,she makes me feel a bit lost though & I'll make da fuss that she doesnt care about me.Da actual reason is lately maybe because she's getting more tensed & frustrated about her referral and somehow she neglected those itsy bitsy tiny mini sensitivity towards me & I dont feel good about it.Anyway,cant blame her nor anyone so just wanna write it out =)

Finally,we got bought da bedframe last week with new bedsheets,followed by da curtain(*shh*it's bathroom curtain actually,water proof!*wow*),da study table,quilt and quilt cover,tv rack,extension n etc.Then we thought da bedframe gonna arrive yesteday so we shifted everything out of da room and ring ring,da bedframe is coming in another day*ish*However,we cleaned da grills+windows,put up da new curtains,throw da old tv rack & changed to da new one,change bedsheets+quilt and spring clean da room.Now da room looks brighter!Last time her rooms seems gloomy,da best place to hibernate but now it's more cheerful with da orange colors around.So next shall set up da study table & wait for da bedframe,once done then everything looks perfectly fine =D and oh yeah we got some tips from Uncle Lim*arigato!*

Hope with this new & fresh environment,will change a better you+me,love you dear,ka yau dear!!

p/s:Happie 23rd Month Anniversary!(21/09/2007)

August Updates~~

Bloggie oh my bloggie..

These few weeks been busy running around and finally got da time & soul to put some updates here*huggies bloggie*Well last two weeks was mainly about dear's results announcement and Merdeka countdown celebration =).Dear made it to Part 1*bravo* but she'll need to do referal for her four papers.It aint a good or bad news but again it's a chance for her to buck up and proceed better.She and I was kinda upset with da results cos we both knew how much she threw herself in it this time and it ended up this way.Couldnt blame anyone at this moment cos there's no time doing so but to grab da time she have to catch up what she needs to.I'm gonna reallie pray very hard this time cos how many heart breaks can one person handle?One?Two?I believe she has handle it more den I do.I guess I'm just lucky and gosh law wasnt my cup of tea else it's just R.I.P for me*haha*

As for Merdeka countdown celebration,this round we have it at da Curve with Alex & Albert and it was amazing how beautiful da fireworks were!We actually saw da biggest fireworks in da city for our independence day celebration & being with da crowd,cheering "Merdeka!Merdeka!Merdeka!",at that moment in time I felt proud being a Malaysian,living in a country with different races & cultures plus less war!Though da day started with some upset news but yet it ended with fireworks that light up our night.Never give up on what we wanna do,that's da spirit!

After all da tantrums,arguements and dramatic situation,finally da 'gal' left and shifted to her fren's house.Honestly,at first I thought this was what I have been reallie wishing for but with second thought,I was rather worried of my dear being alone,not getting use to it and their friendship bond getting wider & wider but I knew I have no say for this and just hope that this is da best for everyone.Hurray~*lol*

Then we had a so call home dinner gathering at my chimui's place with her dear,ex-gf and another fren of ours which was da chef of da day.I couldnt recall when was da last time I had home dinner cooked by my fren?Few years back?Maybe,anyhow it was a thumbs up dinner,da food & da soup was absolutely nice!Good gathering as I get to meet again two of my friends after 3 years!!

Last week,we were busy about changing & decorating da house and room,try to make my dear's place as comfy as possible so she could suit da change + turning it into a better studying enviroment =) When was da last time that I spend few nights at my dear's place?I dont remember though but now I get to do da morning cleaning for her,spending da day & night together and on one Monday morning,she sent me to work,I was a little surprised and happie about this.No reason why but I was just happie.But this little nut head seems to be taking me grantedly and hey,no matter how long a relationship is,you must not forget to put some spices and not forgetting appreciation too!

Yesterday was a mad sale shopping night at Jusco!Gonna go back and count how many things did I bought*lol*Got to go before my dear come and pick me,before that I need to go to da loo =P

Note to my dear:Start pumping in da petrol!!!Love you